The reality is that the freedom you think you gain with these "lifestyles" is just a big smokescreen. It is the art of misdirection, it is a cesspool made to look like a waterpark.
You see promises are made about the freedom of sex with whoever and whenever, glory is given to the heightened awareness of drug use and alcohol.
The truth if the matters is plain to witness though. Sex with whoever whenever leads to babies. Babies are not a limited demand item. These young boys ad girls demand that you feed, water, clean, support, invest, assist, repeat; for the many years to follow. For the first 10 years, these little ones are almost helpless, the for years 11-? They demand freedom that they are not able to responsibly earn.
Besides babies, there is the emotional tie that binds two people who engage in sex. See we are people of appetite; meaning if we like something then we want more. Sex will keep you in a jacked up relationship because you are afraid you might not be able to "get some" regularly if you break up with your partner. Yet this relationship will end and badly, with hateful, devaluing, haunting insults exchanged; and scars that will affect your next relationship.
There are also physical illnesses that can come from free sex. Just google STD's and evaluate the risk reward for yourself. There is also the problem of being trapped in a prematurely sexual relationship by the guilt you deny having. This accompanies one of the previously mentioned results. You begin to feel the pressure of the child you have (brought forth by your love of the child) together with a person you no longer love in the same way. You begin to feel bitterness and your fighting increases and escalates leaving you trapped and held hostage by this freedom you have given yourself over to.
Drugs and alcohol are a different way to paint yourself in a box. It is amazing in a culture of people longing to be independent that we give ourselves so freely to the control of chemicals and herbs. Again, I would remind you that we are people driven by our appetites, needing more and more of that which we like. This leads us to begin to delve deeper into the culture that develops around these substances. We will see the signs of use in influential people and use that as encouragement to continue; forgetting that outside of the fame and money, these people live lives of wreckage and sorrow. Some of these substance Will even change how your mind thinks, or will adversely affect the way organs in your body work. These substances can also counter the way prescription drugs such as anti-depressants, high blood pressure, birth control work.
My prayer is that if have already entered into any of these that you would seek help and also true freedom. If you are thinking about the allure if these. Don't do it, it is a lie meant to change the course of your life for years.
simply HIS, jb